This is another old piece that I found in my cupboard for rants on the issue of the utter rubbish those con artists started a few years back now. It's written in March this year, 2015, and is therefore continuing on the last post I did, which was from March of last year, 2014. In that post I'd talked about how my sister had manipulated the Court to get her own lawyer chosen as the "unpartial" one, who was to settle father's death estate. Her own lawyer in her hometown, a very famous lawyer too, once had worked with this lawyer's boss and co-worker, so it was easy from me to find their ties. And above that my sister had written a letter to the High Court and confessed all of her tricks to get this lawyer of hers. However, stupid as she is she made it out as if it was a good thing that she had kept her siblings in the dark about how she did all this manipulation.
I don't know how the Court viewed her confession - that is if they just as much as her admired the cunning tactics she'd used to get her way, or if they felt the same kind of disgust as the rest of us did. But it ended that they let me win the case, so I suspect they felt the same way as I did about that part. That is something you need to be aware of, that your narcissist and psychopath will believe they are clever when they do things like that. So they will try and brag about it, and when they do make it out as if they were the clever ones and you the stupid one. They do this to make others agree with them and look upon them with admirations. Only other very stupid people fall for such tricks, and unfortunately the lawyer finally did choose to settle father's estate turned out to be pretty slow in his mind, so to say.
So here is the old piece and it looks like comments I first wrote then deleted under some YouTube's, why it might come out a bit disconnected with other paragraphs: I raised my baby sister like a mini-mom to her, as mother is a selfish narcissist. It's this sister who's done it mostly, with the help of NM (narcissistic mother) and the GB (golden brother). The weird thing is that NM has been divorced +25 yrs from that family I'm talking about (almost ruined and crushed dad when she did). Some truly believe she is evil personified, and they STILL believe her and her two darlings. It's cause sister is a very convincing and charming person. I don't stand a chance. She and the GB convinced the lawyer that settled dad's inheritance (millions) that they were "closer" to him then us two un-golden "scapegoats". So he split up stuff so they'd got like 25-30% more then us, by faking values.
We then offered to buy them out, for the value they said stuff had (would make them get less as they'd faked it) and now straight out GB gave an offer, where he wishes to buy us out for 30% less then what the lawyer said stuff was worth. He also offered to buy out lying sister with MORE then they'd said stuff was worth, and hence revealing to us that we were not calculating stuff wrongly, and we indeed were intended to get like 30% less then them. I've been accused of being petty and cheap, while I've lost hundreds of thousands by wanting to ignore old gifts, which the sister wanted to bring up. I've lost tens of thousands on taking over dad's old car. But they are nagging on small sums, refrigirators, tiny stuff, and then giving insulting offers to show us that we are not worth as much as them. That WE don't belong on the farm our ancestors farmed.
It was our granny mostly doing the farming and it's us two being bullied who look and act like her. Those two resembling NM is NOTHING like granny. Both on the outside our looks, and inside how we acts, we are like her. Without granny I'd never known love as she was with me in spirit from I was a baby. I could feel her hug me in the closet when I cried. And I knew it was her. I wanted to name my firstborn after her, so my sister took granny's name as soon as she became of age. As to say that SHE was my firstborn! She's always been slagging my children off, and it's quite clear to me she's dead jealous that I love them MORE then her. Of course I do! My biggest fear, besides getting a miscarriage, when pregnant was to get a child like her.
I believe she's a sociopath, as she has no empathy, no emotions, and she frames others for stuff she just "had to do". Like killing a kitty, putting a forest on fire, stealing stuff, and so on. On the surface she looks very innocent however. Shows NO emotions, totally blank. People here believe that is cause the person has deep emotions, and they disbelieve people crying and acting out in frustration, showing temper. She's very clever at never doing that and always saying the "right things". Our NM and GB are her flying monkeys, and they confirm together everything the others say. That's why so many believes them, as they work together to defame and destroy me. They've been doing this towards my oldest bro for years, so I know how they work. I also believed alot of shit they said, but since we were friends too it didn't work too well.
But then I found out that he was told lies about me, and he sent me a hate mail in 2002 or 2003. Obviously he'd heard smear about me. I now understand that when they realized that we were friends they needed to brake us up, so they took something I've said to NM in confidence a year or two ago, and they exaggerated it. I'm a sensitive and I've always felt very unwanted in my family. Like people were MAD at me. After my sis killed an aunts kitty that very same aunt told me my sis was a saint, and that just made me crinch, so I just had to say something. All I said was "well, she can do stuff too" and nothing else, as she was comparing sis to me, and according to her sis was the saint, not me desperatly trying to save her kitty from my sisters murderous claws. To that both aunts smirked at me and lashed out that I was a very nasty person!
I was for trying to inform them that my sister was NOT a better person then me? They were nasty aunts who never hugged me or loved me when I was clearly being abused by NM. Once this same aunt gave me a coin after she saw NM hit me in the face. Did she really think that was just for show and that she was much kinder in private? My narcsissists in my FOO (family of origin) plant ideas for years. Now I understand why people thought my sister was a "saint" while she deliberatly killed aunt's kitty (to spite me, people I've talked to seem to agree was the reason, not harming the kitty per se, as I tried so hard to stop her, but failed). She also burned down a forest - very "saint like". She framed a friend for that. She stole lots of my most precious belongings and gave them to friends. Framed friends for a few of those thefts too.
Now I understand they did the same with the brothers, framed the older one (or me!) for things the Golden boy did, therefore people thought the Golden boy was a saint, and his brother a "trouble maker". He used to REACT big time and jump on his brother trying to beat the crap out of him for the nasty things he did. That was exactly what the narcissist brother wanted him to do. But he knows that now, and the older one NEVER reacts - ever. But now they use that as an excuse that he's feeling "shame and guilt" and therefore is "unable to speak up for himself". They twist whatever you do to their favour. They make up stuff you've made. For instance, for 2 years they've been telling "everyone" about me and what horrible things I'm supposed to have done (the latest framings by my sister). One of the nasty things I'm doing is having a "smear campaign" going about her and also the GB.
I call their made up smear campaign "smear anonymously" as that's what it is. Remember - THEY are the ones telling lies and shit about me to "everyone", and they have informed us that "everyone agrees with them" that I'm a horrible person for doing all this shit towards them. In reality, everyone agrees that what THEY do towards me/us is horrible, as they are twisting the story backwards when they spread their tales. So if it's true - which I know it's not - that everyone agrees with them, it's cause the story is turned around. What I'm framed with is 100% what the golden sister and brother are doing, and also what all their enablers and flying monkeys are doing. They do however manage to make new people believe that I've done horrible things, as people tend to believe there is a "row" or some kind of "fight" going on between people slagging each other off and lying about each other. People are so dumb.
That is what the psychopaths wish to accomplish - atleast their victims must take 50% of the blame! I am 100% innocent in all this and I only have told the truth, as I know it. I've never written ONE word about them using their NAMES anywhere. I've not even mentioned this fight to any of our common relatives, except very dry trying to explain the matter - what physically DID happen - to an aunt who attacked me with emotional abuse about how insensitive and non caring I was to my family!? After my sister had lied about me, and her husband threatened me with the police for refusing to lie. (He actually was going to report me due to one polite mail I'd written to my sister. She shared my private mail with others, and accused me of harassment and slander. Her husband replied that they've now already sent in a police report due to my "threats". INSANE!!! Then I noticed there was one short sentance in a video I'd linked the mail to, where I had a serious tone of voice. I gave a short warning to not lie under oath, as I'd just testified in the video under oath. That was it - narcissists, bullies and utterly despicable beings.)
Last year my NM phoned me shortly after I'd had a dream where I had told her everything I was mad at her for. So I told her some, and when I felt like not telling her more I just hung up. Awhile later she phoned me again and I told her straight out to NEVER get in touch with me again unless she was prepared to apololize for those things I'd mentioned (my oldest brother had already told her the very same thing 1½ yrs earlier, that she must apologize to me for exactly those things before I will speak to her again, so she knows). But she said she didn't know, of course, and that she never done those things. Then last month she did exactly what she said she never has done. She tried to hide it, but since she let my oldest brother know I found out. She lied to me and swore she NEVER done that, and never intended to. And then she went on and did it again! But she NEVER apologized for doing it in the first place, and then thinks it's okey to do it again. And again. But she never has done it - afterwards. These are sick people - sick of lies and deception.
What she's doing is LYING about me. She meddles with legal affairs to make sure me and my children get much LESS then her golden children, particulary my sister, whom I stayed at home until 22 yrs old to take care of, as NM would not care for her and dad needed help. Now NM has bribed that bitch for so long, with hundreds of thousands, and helps her to rip me and my children off. Using lies. NM swears falsely on things she just makes up, lies that she was married with dad long after they seperated and after the divorce had come through, making it out she was there and know stuff, when she was not. Pretends she's part of all dad's life, when she was not. So she lies and pretends she knows stuff to make sure I will loose. I now realize why she stole a paper dad had asked her to give to me, which was worth alot. She kept it for a long time, until I atlast managed to make her give it to me. By then it's lost half it's value.
She told me she'd done it to "help me"??? What the...??? How can ruining dad's help to me be "helping me"? We needed those money NOW, and she made sure we didn't. She took all dad's money in 1992 and when we were hit in the economic collapse that year she helped us NOTHING. She even bitched over us not being able to buy a ticket to an island, after she had talked us into putting money on going down the country to come and see her. She tried her best to make us pay our own tickets, but we had NO MONEY, and all along she had millions on the bank. She's been pretending to be "poor" to me all my life, while wallowing in her inheritance from her parents and the money she conned out of dad. Now I know as I found all this proof in dad's house after he died. Now I know she ALWAYS lied to me and tried to harm me and my children. She gave her Golden children hundreds of thousands, and I most likely don't know half of it.
Only a painting my sister got I now know was worth ten times as much as I was told. I thought it was worth 10-20 K, but it's worth 100-200 K. Now I understand why sister could buy the whole house after she divorced, while having a low paid job and soon after she got sacked. Now I know why golden brother without a fulltime job could "buy" NM's house by the sea. He got it. She GAVE it to him. Of course. It was my mother-in-law who told me that my NM had told her that once. She thought I knew, but I didn't. My NM has been slagging me off to my parents-in-law so they mistreated me for years. It took a very long time until they realized they'd been conned by the bitch. When their own son told them about her they would not believe him. Now they do. I told father-in-law that I'd found out NM filed for divorce 2 months before I was due to give birth to their first grandchild. When I was giving them a grandchild dad was in pieces, a broken man. Thanks NM for being so considerate, for "caring" so much for the family and your grandchildren.
Last christmas she was here in 2011 she was horrible. The worst of it all was when she openly admitted to us all that she'd forgot about my grandson - that he EXISTED. How can you even admit to such a thing? She's NOT demented, she's just evil and she does only care for herself and her evil little schemes. In her mind they make sense, but they are made up stories to make her into a hero and all she wish to destroy into devils. She's the devil, if you ask me. You always give her the benifit of the doubt and she fools you. She disappoints you - just like her two horrible children. It's all about THEM and THEIR RIGHTS and what THEY NEED. Everyone else is unimportant - does not matter. I don't matter, my children, grandson, and all the rest of us that are not THEM - we do not matter. Our feelings, our health, our lives, our dreams, our love - nothing matters. Only them and their checkbooks matters. Their MONEY. Their POWER to rule and make rules matters. They are the deveivers, the liars, the devils of this world.
Here is a live example. Dad died and ever since then the narc (liars) have been trying to get MORE. At first the lawyer we took in (cause we could NOT reason with them) said we were all EQUALS. Then after awhile he agreed that THEY had bigger claim to the estate. So he made a plan to settle the estate, where they got 3 million, and we got 1,5 million. To make it even they would give us 0,5 (netto), which would somehow add up to be the same. Only... He's used the estate to "give" us our money, and by using our narcissist sister's estate agent he invented that a little rotten piece of land was now worth 1,5 million. I talked to the agent and he lied straight in our faces - claimed the land contained full grown forest worth 1,5 million. I looked at the forest plan - all LIES. It contained ZERO full grown forest! We made a little calculating and came up with that they'd indended to give THEM 1 million MORE then us. That was the truth.
So we had no choice but to go to the bank and ask for a loan to BUY the whole estate. And we gave a good offer to them, based on THEIR own figures. We even added 50 K MORE to their 1/4 parts. Guess what? The narcissist brother would NOT accept it. He has to WIN. So he now has offered us 150 K LESS to buy us out. It shows that he indeed thinks we deserve much less then them, as that would make (brutto) 1 million less to us. He offered us two scapegoats that, while he offered his GOLDEN sis the same as we'd offered! Only he had used a house, which in the end she'd be able to sell for far more. By doing that he showed us ALL that he did NOT believe in EQUALITY. That not only did he and his golden sister think they are closer connected to this land (dad's parents land), but they are also MORE deserving of the inheritance. It's in your face obvious now. No trying to hide it with over valuing a piece of worthless watersick woodland, but in your face "here it is". We are only worth to get (netto) 1,3 million for our part. That's what he said. While they should have 2,2 million. That is almost a million, indeed.
On top of that I've received hundreds of thousands less gifts then he ever did, while I had FOUR children and he only got one. He got just as much as his brother, but his brother has THREE children! I calculated their gifts as this: golden boy has gotten about 750 K, golden sis about 900 K, oldest bro about 600 K and I exactly 300 K. And I'm the one having FOUR children, more then anyone else. Sister has only one with a wealthy guy with no other kids. So I'm not able to even get my 1/4 of the estate by this horrible NARCISSIST. He has to destroy me as he hates me for having FOUR children. His dream was to have four and he had set his mind on sharing my wedding day, but luckily his plan didn't work and I got my wedding day for myself. He believes he owns me and he's been destroying my relationships with boys, deciding who I would date and all sorts of things, a brother should NOT meddle with this as he's not my owner. He hates me for not being his slave anymore, for braking loose.
I think he needs a shrink, as he has seriously issues as he cannot handle rejections. I wont do as he tells me anymore, and I will NOT accept that I'm less worth then my sister. I'm atleast as much worth as her. But in my opionion I'm more worth, as I've done none of those sick things she's done in her life. Her moral is very low, she's a selfish materialist, she's crying over peanuts, and sends her husband to yell at me, calling me "cheap" for not wanting to pay MORE then we'd agreed on. Much more. If I agree on one sum, she'll try and force me to pay the double. Always. She never pays her debts and then spreads out I'm the cheap one. She's now bickering over tiny sums, bitching she'll not get "rewarded" for small amounts, while we've offered her 50 K extra. If you give them 100 K, and thinks that would cover the 1 K you previously owned them, such a person would bitch over those 1 K forever! Then calling YOU cheap for "refusing to pay her what you owe". And then you just gave her 99 K for NOTHING. That's how these kind of malignant people are!
Queen Angelica - Fairyland Poetry